Most of the time you hear.....get your head out of the gutter. For women I think it is important to have your head in the gutter sometimes. :)
Lets face it. Most men have a pretty natural amount of chemical make up that makes it possible for them to get in the game several times during any day. Sometimes it just takes a slight breeze.
Women. We will have to work at it. 80% of it is in our heads. If your mind is somewhere else.....your body will not be present either.
We have to put not so much our thinking hat on but more our sexual awareness hat on.
Think about it. When you come home from work (those that work outside of the home) you take off your work hat once you walk in the door with the kids grabbing at you and pulling on you excited to see you and immediately throw on your mom hat. The way you think and even talk changes once that hat is on. You have a ladies night out and happily take off mom hat to put on your going out hat.
We have so many hats.
Mom, daughter, friend, wife, patient, employee, employer, supervisor, care taker, teacher, lover, single mom, lesbian, straight, religious member, advocate, litigator (old joke)......to name only a few.
We get to the point when changing hats is done without even thinking. It's as if they magically interchange themselves depending on whose company you are in.
And some hats we have to consciously put on.
So ladies remember that you need to pull out and dust off the sexual partner hat once in a while.
You may even need to help your partner find hers and dust hers off too.
but please put them on. hopefully at the same time. :)
It's the weekend !!! Babysitters babysitters babysitters !! I can't stress how important this is ladies.